Bean and Bee

Lots to be Thankful for ......

2011-11-23T20:07:00.001-05:00

Every year, I have the girls write, or draw, what they have to be thankful for. It started because I didn't want them to be stumped/embarrassed when asked during our Thanksgiving
roundtable tradition (my Mom has us all tell what we have to be Thankful for before our meal begins), and I have been keeping them over the years.

This year, Ms. Bean (8 going on 15) is grateful for:
- reading - coloring - bubbles - sparklers - sparkles - glitter - secrets (shhhhh) - twinkles - feathers - earrings - diamonds - and family.

Little Bee, 6, is grateful for her Family and her Pets. In her world, we are all she needs.

I am grateful for two wonderful little girls, who taught me how to love. My parents who taught me patients and appreciation. And to Tom, who is happily on this Journey with me.

And of course for my friends, who I cherish and adore.

Happy Thanksgiving!

The Classics

2011-11-23T19:51:00.001-05:00

Anyone want to guess Ms. Beans favorite?

Little Bee's First grade Portrait

2011-11-03T18:10:00.001-05:00

A self Portrait comes home every year, and when they get to 5th grade, I am going to make a collage.

Costumes 2011

2011-10-29T13:11:00.000-05:00

I have a friend named Sandra. Her corner of the web can be found here Sandra's Blog. I read it religiously and consider her a personal hero, though I would never even attempt to try 99.6% of what she blogs about, because my insurance premiums wont cover the fire damage that would surely follow.

Since I met her 8 years ago (and probably for years prior) she has made all of her kids Halloween costumes, which have ALWAYS been completely adorable. So, about three years ago, when I was sitting in a sea of dress up clothes with the girls and looking in catalogs to determine what we would be purchasing that year, I thought of Sandra, and decided there and then that the Devendorfs would NEVER AGAIN buy a Halloween costume. And, a new tradition began ....................

The Rules:

1) We will not purchase costumes, HOWEVER, we can use items already around the house to incorporate into our design.
2) Mom does not make more then three trips to the fabric store. If you need additional materials after my 3rd trip, you need to beg your grandparents to take you.

3) Original designs need to be completed and turned in by the first week in October. Contract modifications can be made after that time, but only if mutually agreed upon.

4) The costume materials can not cost more then a mid range costume in the costume catalog (no. I am serious).

Little Bee the Butterfly -

After much discussion, Little Bee decided that she was going to be a butterfly. A pink butterfly. And the fabric store allowed for great inspiration as Halloween means it is full of sheer, sparkley wonder.

She selected two lovely fabrics, and we worked together to come up with a concept which included glitter, an old leotard, lots of golden thread, a hot glue gun, and a dad who was willing to make a head peice.

The "L" Pattern

Grandma sewed up a skirt

Ta Da! This is a Happy Little Butterfly! A Happy, "Itchy" Butterfly. Let us keep our fingers crossed we do not require another visit to the Fabric Store.

Ms. Bean the Fortune Teller:

It all started when Ms. Bean found her Magic 8 Ball on an old toy shelf. The idea was born, and we needed to get started, quickly. I began to flip through photos of Fortune Tellers and Gypsies, and we finalized our concept when Little Bee brought home a copy of Strega Nona (the school has a rule that you have to dress like a book character, no matter how loose a fit).

All we needed was a long skirt, white blouse, and lots of gold. Ms. Bean went to work.

After she raided the Mardi-Gras beads and box of acquired gift-bag loot, we set off to get the fabric for a skirt. And we didn't have to look far, because the local thrift store had the perfect skirt which I picked up for $6.00. Probably a violation of the rules, but when I took into account how much time I didn't have to spend sewing sequins, I went with it. All it needed was a hem and a little elastic in the waste! Woo Hoo!

The blouse needed to be ruffly, a little over the top, and sheer. Not unlike the prairie look from the early 80's. And, guess who had one in her closet, dating back to 1982?
Actually, it is the ONLY thing I have from that period, and I have never been able to part with it. My Grandmother, Gertrude, who was an amazing seamstress, made it for me when I was a pre-teen. I LOVED it. And, despite the coffee strains, and a little yellowing, it has hung in a dry cleaning bag for 30 years. So, around the 2nd week of October, I took it out of the bag, got out the Woolite, crossed my fingers, and turned on the gentle cycle. Success!

Happy Halloween!

Love - BEAN and BEE!

Mom missed that lesson .....................

2011-10-28T09:01:00.002-05:00

Last Wednesday while tucking Little Bee (now 6 ) into bed;

Little Bee - Mom, you and I ever get to spend time together anymore (she was refering to an improptu over-nighter that Ms. Bean and I took last weekend with some friends to the beach).

Me -- You're right. Sarah has a birthday party Friday night. How about if we go out to dinner and have some Mommy/Leah time?

Little Bee - I would LOVE that! Can I bring a friend? (Hmmmmm. What happened to Mommy/Leah time?)

Me - Sure. Who do you want to bring? Bella? Tori? Ella? Ohhhhh!!!!! I KNOW! How about Liam (the adorable boy in her first grade glass, who she insisted I get a picture of last week when I was in for lunch).

Little Bee - (looking alarmed and rather discusted) - MOOOOMMMM! Have you ever heard of playing hard-to-get? Geeeeessshhhhh!

Nope. I guess I need to go back to Elementry School and learn a thing or two.

I really need to start writing these things down ........

2011-10-28T08:50:00.000-05:00

Clearly, technology has replaced technology. Between Facebook, Twitter, Google+ (which I have but NEVER use), and the thing they put into the office that is supposed to be for work, but is really used to make fun of the guy running the conference call, I NEVER seem to blog anymore.

And it is possible, that only my mother misses me.

However, I really hate for my blog to become completely dormant, because I started it for my kids, and they don't read my posts, or my tweets, or my cutting comments about the guy running the conference call. But one day, they might want to read about the randomness of my life, if nothing else to provide their therapists with documentation about why they are the way they are.

So, I have decided to use this as a place to jot down those things "I really need to write down". They might be snippets of my day, and they may or not make sense, but since this is my little corner of the web, it is what is is.

Feel free to follow along, and comment when you can. I still treasure my readers, as you know, because you are all "Friends" in an alternate universe.

Little Bee's Horse

2011-06-05T09:09:00.000-05:00

Still Life By Ms. Bean

2011-06-05T09:05:00.000-05:00

A Fable - By Ms. Bean (7)

2011-03-23T16:54:00.000-05:00

Once upon a time in a swamp in Africa, there was an alligator and a bird. They were best friends since they were born. Two days later, Alligator had a horrible toothache and there were no doctors available. Birds father is a doctor so bird crawled inside alligators mouth and cleaned his mouth. Alligator fells better and bird feels better too. Happily ever after.
Lesson: A little person can make a big difference.

Little Bee's Kindergarten Portrait

2011-03-02T17:45:00.001-05:00

Surprise!

2011-03-01T14:25:00.003-05:00

I just found this delightful surprise in my purse. Ms. Bean was watching my remedial dance practice leading to the upcoming recital. I guess she thought that I needed a little "pick-me-up" in my "lunchbox". So completely in love at the moment .............

Ms. Beans Valentine to Mom

2011-02-14T18:20:00.003-05:00

To Mom, you're the best. I love you so much. You never forget that. Have I said enough? I love you Happy Valentines Day.

To Dad and Leah -- same things for you. You mean the world to me. I love you. P.S. You to Leah!

(Quite Franklly, I like her spelling better).

100 days and counting ..............

2011-02-14T18:16:00.000-05:00

Her Native American Name

2011-01-10T18:14:00.002-05:00

I wish this could be scanned in its entirety, but sometimes scrap paper isn't as forgiving as one would like.

According to Ms. Bean, the assignment was to give yourself a Native American name and draw a picture to describe it. Ms. Bean responded with true 7-year old enthusiasm ..........

Introducing ......... (drum roll) ..........................

"She Who Brought Music to the World" ...............

We really have to get cranking on those Guitar Lessons!

What is Chitzenship

2010-12-19T11:22:00.003-05:00

I just completed a 2-week leadership course in Landsdown. During that period, we spend a LOT if time discussing and debating the meaning of Citizenship. Apparently, I only needed to look in Ms. Beans backpack for the right answer ..........

If I could make the rules

2010-11-30T19:16:00.004-05:00

Once in a while, you have a moment when the kids do something so wonderful and so unexpected, you actually need to sit down and take it in. I just had one of those moments. Ms. Bean brought home a huge stack of work that she did during the 1st quarter (2nd Grade). I was half looking at the paperwork, while doing 50 other things and holding 6 conversations, when a slip of paper caught my eye. The handwriting was definitely my daughters, the sentiment beautiful:

"If I could make the rules, I would open a grocery store just for the poor and the price would be very low or no price at all. I would get rid of cigarettes so nobody would hurt their throat."

Little Bee's Dream

2010-11-10T08:58:00.002-05:00

Scene - while laying in bed figuring out today's logistics, Little Bee arrives at the door, sleep still in her eyes:

Little Bee: "Mommy. I had a strange dream."
Me: "Really? What was it about"
Little Bee: "Alex (my mothers dog) went to a school that wasn't very hard, and all they did all day was have fire drills".

I LOVE the mind of a Kindergartner!

The BEST birthday card EVER!

2010-10-26T09:31:00.008-05:00

Last Sunday, I turned 43.

Since we are in the process of gutting the kitchen, Tom and I decided that there would be no presents this year, and the girls are over scheduled so we have little time on weekends for a "party". We enjoyed a couple of lovely quiet meals with Susie and Papa, and I LOVED being with the people I love.

However, the girls weren't going to let the day go by without a little fanfare! Ms. Bean washed by car from top to bottom and vacuumed for hours with Papa on Saturday (thanks DAD!). And little Bee, demanded that I produce a box of pens, a sheet of paper, and get OUT OF HER WAY!

20 minutes later, she appeared with this masterpiece, and the following explanation:

The front contains the first and last letter of our names. The Heart indicates who is having the birthday, and the "O" symbalized who made the card.

And here is the inside. A cake topped with sparkelers (THANKS ERICA!) and the ROYGBIV and a sunflower for Mommy. I simply couldnt be more proud or delighted.

Dinner Doodles

2010-10-26T09:02:00.006-05:00

Both a friend and Susie mentioned that I never blog anymore, and they miss my posts. I will definitely try and write more often, since I really do need a place to lay some creative energy.

This delightful little doodle was the bonus from an Alexandria Symphony Charity Dinner I attended last night. On my arm was the most delightful date (Ms. Bean, 7) and in between the tango lesson and Chicken Fingers, she captured the room.

A good thing! I forgot my camera.

XOXO

Bean Designs

2010-10-11T16:38:00.000-05:00

Ms. Bean has started her own fashion design business. Need a dress for a State Dinner? Mermaid Ball? Sunshine Club? You know who to call!

Happy Fall From Ms. Bean

2010-10-11T16:33:00.000-05:00

More Wisdom from Little Bee (now 5)

2010-08-25T19:56:00.003-05:00

Scene: Grocery Store, peanut butter Isle

Little Bee: "We need to get crunchy"
Me: "Why? We always get creamy"
Little Bee: "Because, I like crunchy"
Me: "Since when?"
Little Bee: "Since always"!
Me: "How come I wasn't aware of that? I have always used creamy peanut butter".
Little Bee: "Because Mommy, I am little and often overlooked ................."

We bought both.

"My Emotions" by Ms. Bean

2010-07-23T19:12:00.000-05:00

The emotions of a 7 year old ..... as told by a 7 year old.

When I grow up ................

2010-06-27T08:25:00.003-05:00

Now that school is over, I decided to do a bi-annual assessment of our "rainy day cabinet", to see what could be pitched, and what needed to be restocked. On a bottom shelf, there were two Fairfax County Police Coloring Books which our dear friend Officer Trivett gave to the girls over Spring Break.

Clearly, they came home from the Sully Police Station and dutifully completed their assignment, which concluded with drawing themselves as future police ladies:

Ms. Bean will be an exact replica of her current self, plus a badge and gun ..................

From Photoclass

Little Bee, is planning to become a black hole, minus any facial features, dressed for a Gay Pride
parade on the Moon.

From Photoclass

My Money is on little Bee. I say this, because Ms. Bean would NEVER touch a gun .............

Little Bee's House

2010-05-21T08:14:00.000-05:00

Anyone want to hire my daughter to do their architectural designing?

Little Bee's Family

2010-05-21T08:10:00.000-05:00

Unclear how we are all going to fit into the house.

"I Love Goats" by Ms. Bean

2010-05-19T16:13:00.000-05:00

Wow!

2010-04-25T18:57:00.001-05:00

This one leaves me speechless. I love this child!

Blizzard Art

2010-02-10T14:55:00.004-05:00

The DC area is covered with more snow then I have seen in 30 years. The girls can only go out for a few moments at a time, and then they remember how wet and uncomfortable snow can be and flee to the warm safety of the house. We have been inside for close to a week, living on hot chocolate, wine, popcorn, and frozen pizza. At this point, nothing is where it is supposed to be and all TV rules and bedtimes have been discontinued until at least Monday. It is a free for all!

Today, at the height of a Blizzard that closed down Dullas Airport for the first time EVER, I decided to take a tiny bite out of the elephant and straiten the kitchen table. At the bottom of the piles of stickers, crayons, and coloring books that were stationed in what used to be the "family command center", I found the following treasures. Something tells me that my kids are getting by just fine ................................

Ms. Bean's Solar System. Pluto will ALWAYS be a planet to us!

Little Bee tells me that this is a "house with an interesting window". Who doesn't LOVE abstract art?

Only a wonderful optimist could pull this out of their imagination on a cold, dark, snowy evening .................

Little Bee's "fish in the ocean" ...............

and;

A "world of swirls"

..............I wonder what they could pull off during a hurricane!

Overheard ..................

2010-02-04T10:29:00.000-05:00

Tom (to little Bee): “So, how was your dinner”
Little Bee: “I didn’t have dinner”
Tom (after a pause): “yes you did. I brought you a Happy Meal. Remember?”
Little Bee: “that wasn’t dinner. That was lunch”
Tom: “No, that was your dinner.”
Little Bee “No, McDonalds is lunch. Dinner is healthy, and tastes bad”.

Happy Earth Day!

2010-01-25T17:26:00.000-05:00

Every day is Earth Day, in the world of Ms. Bean!

Little Bee's New Years Resolution

2009-12-31T18:25:00.001-05:00

My resolution is to spend more time with my Mom and Dad.

Ms. Beans New Years Resolution

2009-12-31T18:23:00.001-05:00

My New Years resolution is to spend more time with the people I love. Im going to go across the world and visit the people that are in my family but I havent seen them in my whole entire life, because they are in different states.

2009-12-12T19:57:00.000-05:00

Craft Weekend - 2009

2009-12-05T18:54:00.010-05:00

I am really not a craft person.

Sure, over the years I have tried. When I was pregnant with Ms. Bean I even asked my mom to buy me a sewing machine and then spend the baby's future tuition on all the needles and faceplate's required to make quilts, cloth diapers (no really, I'm serious), bibs, and clothes. In the end, I successfully completed catnip toys for Skippy and then gave my mom the sewing machine.

I then spent about 2 years stalking the clearance sections at Michaels an Total Crafts. So, in my house is a ROOM full of foam shapes, tye dye components, beads, photo frame kits, paint, egg dying kids, charcoals, floss, yarn and fabric.

It will all be donated to a women's shelter right after the 1st of the year.

Recently the girls (now 6 and 4.5) have really taken to do-it-yourself projects. Knowing that I was unable to teach them, I looked to Google and in just a couple of minutes managed to find a host of free activities that were remarkably cool, and provided a full day of entertainment.

At 0900 we started out at HomeDepot for their monthly kids workshop. I discovered this program a few months ago while Tom shopped for a grill. It is the first Saturday of the month and the kids make adorable projects in about 20 minutes. Today, we made a wagon (below). Last months project was a Trivet. They give the kids an apron (just like the employees), an achievement pin, and a certificate.

After HomeDepot, we drove directly to Lowes for their Build and Grow Clinic to make a Wooden Ginger Bread House. I wasn't sure if we wanted to go the this because the craft looked lame in the promotional photo, but it was really cute! In addition to the craft, the girls received an apron, a patch with a Ginger Bread Man on it (which will force me to SEW, but I digress), safety goggles and a certificate. Bean (Purple) and Bee (Pink) made the following ................

Michaels was next on our tour. In just a few moments, the kids made a card and a stocking. They were offering the opportunity to make a Trinket box as well, but we were needing to prepare of part 2 of craft day.

Following lunch at Fridays (the kids wanted McDonalds, but Spouse wanted a beer and he was driving) we went to the local Unitarian Church (thanks Jim and Tamara for the invitation) which was having their Craft Workshop. The kids had a wonderful time and for a small donation made these gingerbread houses in addition to cards and ornaments.

So, for under $16 (which includes the paint), the kids walked away from this weekend happy, self confident, and tired. I walked away with a HUGE jump in the holidays. And, my house was not impacted by mess or additional clutter. In some commercials, they call that Priceless.

My return e-mail to Hardtimes Spam

2009-12-01T11:39:00.001-05:00

I have NO idea what has happened to your King Street location, but our service last Sunday (and frankly the last several times we have been there) SUCKED! Your staff is clueless. We were there at around noon. There were about three tables filled upstairs and three staff members working. It took us 15 minutes to get water while one of the staff stood at the bar and looked as us (I guess that we weren’t at "her" table). I needed to ask for crayons for the kids 4 times (because we were given placemats to DRAW ON without them). The food was cold and the entire experience unpleasant.

Please take me off your mailing. At this point I have NO interest in your promotional materials.

Ms. Bean has a LOT to be Thankful for ................

2009-11-28T14:12:00.001-05:00

The worlds BEST present!

2009-11-26T13:42:00.001-05:00

Look at the charming note that greeted me this morning!

"Dear Family - I hope you have a splended Thanksgiving. Love, Sarah"

I truly am blessed! Happy Turkey Day!

Sisters in November

2009-11-17T09:20:00.006-05:00

Last week, Ms. Bean and Little Bee jumped into their kitchen chairs and demanded pens and paper. They were determined to demonstrate to each other what their sister/family meant to them by making each other a card. Always one to encourage sisterly love, I immediately complied before disappearing into the abyss of the Internet. When I emerged, their were 2 remarkable compositions on the kitchen table.

Above is Ms. Beans drawing. What is more special then spending time with your sister, in a field of flowers, while enjoying a light spring rain in your Sunday dresses? Sure beats
lifetime imprisonment with the rest of us (see Little Bee's masterpeice below) ...............................

On the bright side, they were consistant with the rain.

She finished early?

2009-10-29T15:47:00.005-05:00

Look what I found on the back of Ms. Beans math worksheet! So much more fun then basic subtraction!

Community Helpers

2009-10-29T15:43:00.002-05:00

I think that we can all see what Ms. Bean thought of her H1N1 Vaccine.

Sunflowers

2009-10-20T16:31:00.002-05:00

By Ms. Bean. Age 6.

Ms.Beans drawing on a random day

2009-10-15T15:45:00.002-05:00

Mommys car is driving to my school for a parent/teacher conference. My dad is inside the house and I am waving goodbye in a rocking chair.

Over Heard on a Tuesday Night

2009-10-08T08:29:00.002-05:00

(During the 1st Hockey Intermission)

Ms. Bean dials the phone:

"Hello Susie"
"I called to say goodnight"
"I love you, too"
"Mommy and Daddy are watching the Hockey Game, and it is tied, but right now, the Caps are all taking their naps"
"OK, See you tomorrow".

Little Bee's Family

2009-09-26T13:38:00.000-05:00

The assignment was to do a SELF PORTRAIT. However, Little Bee does not feel complete without the rest of us. Mommy LOVES it when little girls choose not to follow directions for good reasons. I am also particularly fond of the sporty glasses on her father.

Another Crappy Meal --- Another Nasty E-mail

2009-09-25T18:25:00.000-05:00

Dear Einstein Bagels -

What a HORRIBLE experience we had during lunch today at your Baileys Crossroads store. My mother, daughter and I went in at lunch time. There were 2 people at the counter and a large crowd formed. At which point, one of the women disappeared, and came back a few minutes later without her apron and with her lunch. Then, the two women argued (presumably about this being an inappropriate time to take a break, though I cant be sure because they weren't speaking English). After a LONG time, the remaining woman started making sandwiches without asking what kind of bagel we wanted. At this point, the crowd was HUGE. When we told her that we wanted a different type of bagel and no cream cheese on our sandwich, she began to SCREAM at my mother and accuse her of not being able to read while pointing to the (confusing) menu board. All of this was witnessed by the woman on her break and (at least) 10 customers in line.

Your bathroom is FILTHY and the whole restaurant smelled old.

I find it hard to believe that in todays economy, this is the BEST you can get?

To your credit, at the very end of this experience, a gentleman came to the counter who appeared to have a clue, and did allow me to trade in my MOLDY fruit salad for the fresh. Silver lining?

Welcome Home!

2009-09-10T17:10:00.002-05:00

We said we would never do it again, but, never is a LONG time!

Meet Luna:

And Pluto:

I suspect that the fish might be in trouble?

The 1st Grade Constitution

2009-09-08T16:38:00.005-05:00

Today was Ms. Beans first day of 1st grade (and Little Bee's 1st day of Pre-K, but that is the subject of another post).

During the course of the day the 1st Graders worked on, and wrote up the Constitution that they would abide by during the school year. The Constitution was then transferred to paper, and sent home for the parents and students to sign.

The First Grade Constitution:

1) Treat others the way you want to be treated (Ms. Bean enthusiastically informed me that this one is hers).
2) Keep your hands and feet to yourself
3) Raise your hand
4) Don't talk when the teacher is talking or reading.
5) Sit up to learn

Good luck to Ms. Bean and the rest of her friends. We look foreword to an amazing academic year. For the record, I never mastered any of these Constitutional Articles, and aside from maybe keeping my feet to myself, doubt I ever will.

What happens at Papa's, does not STAY at Papa's

2009-09-08T13:13:00.002-05:00

The other night I heard the following discussion between Ms. Bean and her "Uncle" Tim -

Tim - "So, how was the rest of your summer"?
Ms. Bean - "Oh, it was GREAT! I got to stay with my Papa and Susie, and my Papa fed me PIE for Breakfast". (pause) "But I only ate the crust".
Tim - "Really? Did he eat pie also"?
Miss Bean - "No. He just read his paper (she spread her arms out to simulate the act of holding a newspaper) and said over and over, "I wonder if this will make Susie mad"?

Don't worry Papa. NO ONE WILL EVER FIND OUT!

Overheard last weekend

2009-09-01T09:17:00.003-05:00

Little Bee (while sitting on the toilet) - Mommy, I love you.
Me - I love you too.
Little Bee - Mommy, I love you so much that for your birthday, I am going to draw you a very special picture. It will be a picture of your very favorite thing.
Me - Really? What is my very favorite thing?
Little Bee - It will be a picture of a poop, in the potty. Because that is your favorite thing.

Hmmmmm. I wonder how much that particular peice of art will get me on ebay?

Peanut Butter and ............................

2009-08-11T17:41:00.002-05:00

2:45 this afternoon:

Me: Girls, I am going into the store to get a few things for the drive tomorrow. What kind of Jelly do you want with your Peanut butter sandwiches?

Ms. Bean - Raspberry. Raspberry JAM! Not jelly! I only like Jam! Jelly is too lumpy. So, get me Jam, OK? OK Mom? Raspberry Jam.

Little Bee - (sigh), Chocolate Jam.

Me: They don't make Chocolate Jam.

Little Bee - Then I wont eat anything.

This could be a VERY long vacation.

Day 2 - Topsail

2009-08-10T16:20:00.003-05:00

So, I forgot the component that uploads the photos from the camera (along with all toiletries, most of our food, and a pair of shoes for Tom). BUT never fear, Bean and Bee took care of the storytelling.

Here is Ms. Beans day from beginning to end. She "awoke, went to the beach, and ate". Her words, not mine.

The best part of Little Bee's day is below. Here she is on the dock at seaTulls with Tom and Ms. Bean (all on their designated colors) after they pulled up the crab pot. In the background is the house, and I am taking photos of the three of them (in blue). You will see the actual photos in a few weeks.

I like vacations better through their eyes anyway!

We're in Topsail!

2009-08-09T17:30:00.007-05:00

This morning started our great adventure! Tom and I are on leave for the next two weeks, and are enjoying a few days at Gary and Jana's lovely home in North Carolina before heading to Disney World to meet the Woolcotts for a week long visit with Mickey!

I woke the girls up earlier then I should have this morning (in part because I was so excited) and as a result forgot EVERYTHING that I planned to bring (to include 90% of the food that we prepared and shopped for). So, while Tom Tom is at the grocery store, I had the girls draw pictures of what they did on Day 1 of their vacation:

Ms. Bean merged reality and fantasy to create the above collage. We have a 6-hour ride strapped into her booster, followed by a visit with a mermaid, and then dinner! Hmmmm.

Little Bee was more literal, and captured her wading in the Ocean. The first visit I might add, that she truly enjoyed, despite her terrified tears that filled the whole walk to the beach.

Tomorrow, I will unpack my camera and post some real photos!

XO D

The Driver

2009-07-29T09:40:00.001-05:00

For the past couple of days I have been driving Ms. Bean and her friend (Malcolm) to a Theater Camp. I have, for the most part, become completely invisible while the two of them chat away. Once in a while I get to say something, but I am getting the impression that I am an “annoyance that needs to be dealt with”, vice a productive member of the carpool.

I have to admit that I am rather enjoying this role. It both allows me to eavesdrop onto her world and discover what is really on her mind PLUS their discussions are hysterically funny. I promised myself that I would start to write some snippets down so that I would remember them. What better place then my (much loved but rarely used) blog?

Tuesday –

Malcolm – I wonder when that library will be finished with construction. It was big to begin with, now its going to be huge
Ms. Bean – Have you ever been to that library?
Malcolm – No, but I drive by it every Sunday when I go to Church.
Ms. Bean – What do you do at Church?
Malcolm – I dunno.
Ms. Bean – Do you like Church?
Malcolm – Yes. They have snacks.

Wednesday –

Ms. Bean – I really want to be Glenda in the play (Wizard of Oz).
Malcolm – I want to be a monkey, or the Wizard. I could be both because the monkeys and the Wizard are never in the same scene.
Ms. Bean – I want to be a girly character, like Glenda or Dorothy. I DON’T want to play a boy.
Malcolm – Hmmmm. Maybe I can be a Monkey, and a tree that throws apples at Dorothy.
Ms. Bean - (after some contemplation) – Well, if I am Dorothy and you are a tree and you throw apples at me ……. I will just turn my head and walk off stage.

Cant wait to see what Thursday brings.

The Perfect Day

2009-07-27T09:15:00.004-05:00

As a parent, there are many verbal milestones that you look forward to. Their first word. Their first song. The first time that they say "I love you". The first time that they read you a book. This morning, Ms. Bean surprised me with a sentence I was unprepared for, and it warmed my heart:

"Mommy, yesterday was the very best day of my whole life"

We spent yesterday with Toms brother Robert and my parents, enjoying a boat ride from Alexandria to Georgetown for lunch, and the return trip. It was a wonderful day, but "the best of my whole life" is a pretty rich statement.

"What was so special about it" I asked. Mildly stunned but delighted.

In a thoughtful and deliberate manner, I got the following response:

"Well, it was beautiful out, the wind blew in my hair, and I was with everyone I love".

Can I just bottle her up now. I never want to forget this time.

Little Bee's Day (as told to Grandma Susie)

2009-06-26T16:50:00.003-05:00

I had a snack but I didn't like the frosting on the cupcakes, because it was lemon and I do not like lemon.

I also had lunch and I just ate the applesauce.

I also took a nap,and the best of all, I made a hola skirt.

That's all the things I did.

Leah

Ms. Bean - Home is where the Heart Is

2009-06-16T07:49:00.000-05:00

Get out the Pens!

2009-06-16T07:45:00.001-05:00

For the better part of a week, Little Bee continually walked around the house asking for "three pens, a pink one, a blue one, and a red one for Love". The timing never seemed right, and we were always in the process of doing something else, so we put off her requests and distracted her with another activity or comment. Finally last Saturday when we had a few moments, Tom gave her some paper and a box of pens and sat her down at the kitchen table.

For over a week, she had been wanting to draw herself in Pink (her favorite color) her Mommy in Blue (my favorite color) and a heart for LOVE.

For the rest of her life, Little Bee will always have a regular supply of pens.

Overheard

2009-06-14T19:33:00.002-05:00

Yesterday while getting dressed to go out for breakfast:

Ms. Bean (appearing in a new green dress) - I am wearing green, and I am from Ireland

Little Bee (appearing with a huge smile and wearing a red dress) - And I, am wearing red, and am from Cherry Picking!

Ms. Bean is 6!

2009-06-13T11:45:00.001-05:00

Wow! What a difference a year makes! 365 days ago, Ms. Bean seemed so grown up! She was finishing pre-school, preparing for Kindergarten, and trying to figure out where she fit into this big puzzle called "life". Today - I honestly believe that she has already identified her path.

In one year, she has become a highly confident, expressive, lovely young lady. She is also slowly moving away from her nuclear core, and preferring the company of the neighborhood children and her friends from school. Just last summer she slowly moved off the bottom step if the OTV pool and after assuring that we were close by, began to splash and play. This year, she is frequently found in the deep end with her friends, lounging on a ring/noodle, and appearing not to notice if we are even poolside. While I get little pains of sadness at times, I am thrilled that she is growing in such a positive direction. It is also a hoot to watch her contagious laugh and smile from a distance, and witness the joy she brings to others. Perhaps it is time for me to recognize that, well, "she's just not that into me"?

She remains an artistic sole, and still has music in her head. On the way to breakfast, she explained that her favorite song at the moment is "Margarettaville", because, it has both "the flute and the maracas". And here, I thought it a simple tale about lost salt?

Most importantly, Ms. Bean continues to be kind and wise beyond her years. She reminds us regularly to do on to others. She is inspiring and delightful. I am privileged to know her.

Overheard on a Friday night

2009-05-08T18:42:00.003-05:00

Me - "Sarah, your snack is ready"
Me "Sarah"
Me - (progressively louder) "SARAH"
Me - "SARAH! Lets GO!"

Ms. Bean appears in the Kitchen

Ms. Bean - "Sorry Mom. I was just watching Ovechkin go in the penalty box. He hurt a Penguin"

Ms. Bean helps Friends

2009-05-06T19:40:00.003-05:00

Homework Assignment - Draw a picture of yourself working well with others to show good teamwork.

Result:

8 years - and counting!

2009-04-27T18:14:00.003-05:00

This is a picture of the amazing gift Ms. Bean gave us for our Anniversary tomorrow. She needed to present it a day early, because my Dad is treating us to a GAME 7 - while my Mom babysits tomorrow night! It has been a fast and fun ride, and I am looking forward to many many more!

Tom - my answer still is, and will always be ............... YES!

Overheard from the back seat

2009-04-18T20:02:00.002-05:00

Ms. Bean - Leah, Stop acting like the boss of everything
Little Bee - (following pause) I cant be the boss Sarah, I'm a girl.
Ms.Bean - You can be the boss and be a girl Leah.
Little Bee - No. Because girls are Mommy's, and they don't like to work. Only Daddy's are the bosses.

Clearly - I need to watch what I say around the house.

2009-03-15T13:50:00.003-05:00

Less then 2 hours after writing this post about Little Bee's kindness and sensitivity, she and I had 2 back to back conversations:

1) At my parents house:

BB - Mom, I don't want to go home
me - Why Leah? Do you want to stay here?
BB - I want you to leave, I am going to stay here.
me - Leah, we were going to spend the afternoon together having some special time.
BB - But, I don't want to be with you
me - Why?
BB - Because I don't like your face

2) 10 minutes later
Susie - Leah, did you have fun at your party yesterday?
BB - no
Me - No? what was your favorite part?
BB - Nothing
Me - Umm. What didn't you like?
BB - (after rolling eyes), I didn't like anything. I didn't like the food. I didn't like the decorations. I didn't like the balloons. (very long pause) I just like the presents.

I can tell, that 4, is going to be a Good Good time with Little Bee!

March 14 - 2009

2009-03-15T08:59:00.003-05:00

Yesterday our Lovely Leah turned 4! It was a very busy day, but in the morning I had a few moments to reflect on how she has changed over the past year, and how she changed our family.

Yesterday as I watched her sleep, it occurred to me that Leah completes us. Her generosity and kind nature is grounding and she is a constant reminder to all of us that miracles come in many amazing packages. Her sense of humor keeps up on our does, and brings laughter into our hearts.

In many ways, Leah is your average American Girl. She is into Princesses, the color Pink (though now she is now leaning more toward Red), butterflies, and jewelry. She loves to run, laugh, play with chalk and climb up the slide. In other ways, she is years beyond her physical self. A friend of mine describes her as "someone who was her before", and I am not sure that is untrue. She loves biology, constellations, planets, and classical music. She also adores her sister more then life. Leah's sense of family and the meaning of the word, appears to have the depth most people don't achieve until they have their own children.

4 years ago today, I was staring into the runny eyes of a child, and wondering how she was going to fit into our world. I never thought that a simple presents would light up all of our lives the way she does.

Happy 4th Birthday Little Bee! Mom

A picture for Mommy - Ms. Bean and her sister

2009-03-12T08:38:00.002-05:00

Ms. Beans Homework

2009-03-10T08:21:00.003-05:00

Last nights homework assignment was to write a letter to the Principle and tell her what you like about school:

Dear Dr. Zissios -

I like my school. I love my teachers Ms. Jackson and Ms. Youngman. I miss Ms. Dwyer and I am sorry she had to leave. Very sorry. I like Art. I like P.E. Its really fun to go to specials. I like to go out to recess and I like to play with my friends.

This year I have learned about money and counting pennies and dimes and Quarters and Nickles. I go on the computer almost every day. I learn how to read, that is what the computer is for. My favorite Special is Music. I get to sing new songs that I didn't know, like:

1) the Echo
2) Shadow Phobia
3. BFF

I really like my classroom. My favorite center is white board because I get to9 draw whatever I want. Sometimes I even go to the large white board, but we don't do that very often.

My friends are Ovie and Pierce. They are really funny. They play with me a lot and I chase them.

I really like my school and everybody there. Sometimes I am afraid of all of the new kids I see, but as long as I am with my friends I have nothing to worry about.

Love,
sarah

I, for one, would really like to attend Kindergarten classes.

Ms. Bean has a Dream ........................

2009-03-05T19:27:00.004-05:00

As part of the Kindergarten discussion regarding Dr. Martin Luther King, the kids shared their dreams for our country. Ms Bean's dreams that all kids could be safe when they swim. Some would argue that her "dream" might not be as inclusive/meaningful as the original, but I suspect that her swim instructors might be equally as touched.

Mommy and Sarah watch Tinkerbell on TV

2009-02-19T12:36:00.003-05:00

The Grounhdhog - A refresher

2009-02-19T12:18:00.001-05:00

As colored and Illustrated (bottom right) by Ms. Bean.

2009-02-17T19:45:00.001-05:00

(Ms. Beans assignment was to Dictate an adventure that she had in the past, and tell us what she remembered. Here is the trip she took to the Baltimore Aquarium a year ago)

My first visit to the Aquarium

I went to the aquarium with mommy and the rest of my family. Leah, Grandma, Grandpa, Daddy, and Mommy were all there. On the way into the Aquarium, we saw a statue of shark teeth. When I first went in the door, I saw pictures of animals close up. They made me feel happy.

I saw the dolphin show. It was really cool. The dolphins did a lot of tricks and they even splashed a little. I saw sharks too! I wasn’t afraid. The sharks have big teeth. I ran around seeing all kinds of Sharks from the top to the bottom. I saw a jelly fish. The jelly fish looked like a shell, but when I saw the legs I knew that it was a Jelly fish. There were rainbow fish and black fish. There were tiny fish. I even saw puffins. I saw sting rays. Some were spotted, some were striped. I even saw a few crabs. The crabs had pink shells and purple shells. Some even had yellow shells.

My sister and my father saw an Octopus. I was too scared, so I didn’t go.

I saw some frogs. The frogs where red, blue and some were black.

After the Dolphin show, we can go under the Dolphin lake and see them behind the glass under water. During the Dolphin Show, we see a movie about taking care of the Dolphins.

Dolphins have a belly bottom just like us!

There is a place where you can touch real animals. I touched a snail where it was slimmed. They also taught me how to pick up a stingray without getting stung.

After our visit, we go to the gift shop. They have bouncy fish balls and Dolphins that are sparkly. Papa bought me a frog magnet.

I would like to go back soon!

sarah

25 Random things

2009-02-08T21:03:00.002-05:00

You have either heard of the "25 Random Things about me", or, you have been living under a rock. I tried not to do it, and posted a letter in its place explaining that I am simply not an interesting individual. That didn't fly with my friends. Here is another attempt ............. XO D

1) I remember the first time that my husband spoke to me vividly, and it was 3 years before we met. He said hello at the local post office. I was new in town and hadn’t met many people. It was nice to have someone talk to me.
2) I absolutely hate rodents, especially rats. If I see one, I will never return to that location. It is for this reason that Tom convinced me that the thing in front of our Payne Street house was a Possum.
3) Tom and I were told that we would never have children naturally. Therefore, we will always consider Leah to be our “miracle child”.
4) Sarah was IVF, and it was a long, painful road to conception. The second that she was born, we knew that she was worth the wait.
5) I don’t like to work. It’s not the job, but the fact that is has to be done. Knowing that makes going to work easier.
6) My mother is my hero. She didn’t like to wok either.
7) My father is my very favorite person. I didn’t like him very much as a teen.
8) I am not a vegetarian, but have a fundamental problem with hunters/hunting. I don’t believe that people should enjoy the act of killing and destruction.
9) I can’t spell
10) I am the very best parallel parker you will ever meet. No idea why, because my driving leaves something to be desired.
11) I have loved the Washington Capitals for 28 years. Prior to the Caps, I was a Bruins Fan. I have NEVER been a Red Wings Fan
12) I don’t like the Redskins, even when they’re winning
13) I don’t like the Wizards, even when they’re loosing.
14) I call my kids “Bean” and “Bee”.
15) I feel guilty every single day for something related to my girls. Sometimes it is not spending enough time with them, or, not having enough patience, or not saying the right thing. I hope that one day they know I tried my very best and adore them every second.
16) I detest Okra.
17) I take pictures almost every single day. They don’t always get uploaded, but I take them.
18) My parents have always said that I can be counted on to say the exact wrong thing at the exact wrong time. I kind of like that trait.
19) At the age of 32, I tracked down my 5th grade teacher and asked him to change the grade on a science paper because his written justification didn’t support the loss of a ½ letter. He, visibly shaken, agreed. Then we got drunk and talked about people.
20) I am finding this a very uncomfortable exercise.
21) I really like face book. It makes me laugh every day. I have some pretty cool friends. I have also “de-friended” some really creepy people.
22) I can no longer just watch TV or just surf the internet. I must do them simultaneously.
23) I don’t like ground beef. You really never know what is ground into it.
24) I cant drink beer out of a bottle. I try, but I spill. If you don’t have a glass, I will settle for a can.
25) I have been very blessed with good lasting friends. My husband is my best friend.

The 95210 for Health

2009-01-23T09:28:00.001-05:00

Ms. Bean came home from school detailing the 9-5-2-1-0 for health. It was distributed at the Elementary School Level - but is good health advice for all of us.

9 - get 9 hours of sleep a night.

Ms. Bean and Little Bee are pretty successful at this one. Even with the average 4 rounds of musical beds that we play a night, they still get close. Tom gets about 8-hours, but I cant imaging that his snoring allows for 8-GOOD hours. Me? Ha! Maybe 5, 7 with a well thought out Ambien!

5 - 5 Servings of fruits and vegetables each day

Ms. Bean and Little Bee are served 5 servings of fruits and vegetables a day. Consuming them is another story. I attempt to get 1 with each mean and another at night. Successful 1/2 the time. Tom? For the sake of our marriage, I'm not going there. Let's just way that there are generally only 2 colors on his plate, and Green is rarely one of them.

2 - Limit screen time to 2 hours a day

FAIL ACROSS THE BOARD. But, we are trying to do better .............

1 - get at least 1 hour of exercise a day

Umm. The kids are getting this due to P.E. and Recess. I used to before I moved across town from my friend Patty! But, we are going to try harder, RIGHT PATTY!

0 - NO sugary drinks

Success on all fronts! Thanks to Tom's New Years resolution and the kids milk/water preferences, we have achieved 1/5 Healthy Habits. Now, let us get to work on the rest ...............................

The End of an Error

2009-01-20T14:44:00.003-05:00

Today at 12:07 pm EST, I received the following text message from CNN:

-- Barack Obama has been sworn in as the nation's 44th president.

I am not sure what this will ultimately mean for our country. Time will tell. However, based on the energy in the city and the happiness expressed in the eyes of my daughters, I am certain things are looking up!

My e-mail to Starbucks regarding their PTO Location

2009-01-14T15:34:00.001-05:00

For the 2nd Saturday in a row, I visited your store at about 0830 in the morning. As a stock holder, Starbucks gold club member, and credit card holder, I was DISGUSTED with the service that I received. During BOTH visits, there was NO COFFEE MADE IN THE STORE. All I wanted on both occasions, was 2 grande coffees and 2 scones, and on both occasions I needed to wait for the crew to make coffee. Further, they actually appeared surprised when I ordered coffee at Starbucks. Does anyone order anything else in your stores?

I returned January 10, thinking that my visit on January 3 was an isolated incident, but was shocked to get the same treatment. Please tell me that this is not a growing trend in Starbucks stores across America, and the PTO facility has chosen to use its "B" crew on weekends.

V/R Diane

Happy New Year!

2009-01-01T08:38:00.004-05:00

Good morning and Happy New Year!

Susie mentioned the other day that I don't blog enough and though she was using it as an example it to highlight my excessive facebook/BB time, I took note and promised to blog something in the New Year.

We appear to have made it though the holidays with little permanent physical or psychological damage. It was a 3-week journey filled with field trips, parties, and visitors. While the energy and excitement level was high, I think that all four of us are looking forward to a few days of down time before returning to school/work.

December started with very cold weather, and Ms. Bean being invited to ride the school board float in the Scottish Parade. Since she is still only 5 (though acting more like a teenager all the time) , I went with her and it was a highlight of the month for both of us (though 1 month later I am finally defrosting).

Early in the month, my Mom and I took the girls to the Alexandria Ballet version of the Nutcracker which was a delight, we attended a few birthday parties, and in the 14th we really kicked off our Holiday Festivities with Wassail at Claude Moore Farm. While Little-Bee, Tom and my Dad beat on trees and left bread for the birds to assure a good harvest, Susie and Ms. Bean cooked a Goose in the colonial kitchen. I ran back and forth with my camera and tried to capture it all. Interestingly, it was the first time that Ms. Bean made the correlation between the fowl on the kitchen table and the animals in the farm. I thought from the original shock she demonstrated that we might have a little vegetarian on our hands, but she appeared to recover by the end of the week.

At some point we got up our tree, send holiday cards, polished the menorah, wrapped, laughed and danced. Ms. Beans school had a holiday concert which was delightful and baby-bee invited me to attend her school holiday party. The girls went canoeing with Santa at the YMCA, and we attended our office parties, a couple neighborhood parties, and a Festivous Celebration which included a POLE and the TUR-DUCK-HEN that my in laws sent us as out Christmas Present. Ugh, yeah. We also managed to squeeze in a mini "stay-cation" with trips to the Natural History Museum, the (newly renovated) American History Museum, and the Zoo.

Christmas eve we spent at Bill and Tara Lenz house, Christmas day at home where Tom cooked dinner for 12 and made it look seamless. The day after Christmas Carolyn came for a along weekend, and on the 30th my dad turned 66 which afforded us the opportunity to visit with my Brother.

So, while this reads like one of the many Christmas Letters we received this month, it might explain my lack of blogging and utter exhaustion that I am currently experiencing. January promises to be slower (though we are beginning Ice Skating Lessons for both girls this month and Ms. Bean starts art classes at the Art League).

No real resolutions this year, I never seem to keep them so really don't see the point. However, I have an informal self commitment to finish my 2008 book over the Inauguration Break (any bets) and I, of course, need to drop a few pounds. That, is for another post.

Just heard to knock at the door, which means we have our first New Years visitor! Wishing all of my readers a Peaceful and Prosperous New Year! DON'T FORGET to eat your Back eyed Peas!

Christmas Eve

2008-12-24T23:35:00.004-05:00

The Reindeer and Rudolph have been fed:

Cookies and Milk are ready for Santa (does anyone else think its cool that Ms.Bean thought that Santa would like this cookie the most?):

And the living room looks like a Rockwell Painting:

Merry Christmas to All - And to All a Good Night!

Please DONT Pick Up Your Toys!

2008-12-19T08:31:00.002-05:00

...............because when Mommy has to pick them up, she gets to see this first thing in the morning ..............

From fun

Bon Voyage

2008-12-14T11:38:00.003-05:00

This morning, Ms. Bean got angry at me for the unforgivable act of taking rainbow glitter away after a 4 oz spill in the kitchen.

The following could be heard following a obligatory sulking period:

Ms Bean - Mommy, I am moving to Texas, because I don't like it in Virginia.
Me - I will miss you very much
Ms. Bean - no you wont, you will forget all about me.

Silence

Me - I will miss you very much, but if you are going to move, you should say good bye to Susie and Papa, they will miss you to.
Ms. Bean - Daddy - I am moving to Texas, good bye.
Tom - Hmmmm. Why Texas? Yuck.

Silence

Ms. Bean - Where's the phone?
Ms. Bean - I messed up the numbers. Can you help me call Susie? Please?
Me - This is just a thought, but if you cant dial the numbers, how are you going to navigate an airport? I think you better stay in Virginia.
Ms. Bean - I'm not taking a phone with me.

Silence

Ms. Bean - Good Bye Susie. Good bye. I'm moving to Texas. Because I don't like Virginia, and Mommy wouldn't let me mix all of the glue and glitter together. Why? Ok, then I will move to France. Ok. Ill miss you.

Silence

But, Susie ........... (sob sob sob), I dont know how to speak French. How will I move there?

Silence

Tom - Who wants to help me make pancakes.

Ms. Bean - Can I crack the eggs? Bye Bye Susie! Mommy ............... I'm not moving to Texas.

Art

2008-12-10T17:25:00.003-05:00

These 2 pictures have been floating around for a while and I wanted to make sure that I got them posted. The first was done in October and is Ms. Bean "dressed as Ballerina". The second is a pastel drawing of "what see's when she looks out her bedroom window" (the Masonic Temple and Street Lights).

XO D

Little Bee and her Mommy

2008-12-01T14:45:00.002-05:00

The other night Ms. Bean was doing a picture with pastels when her sister jumped up and decided to draw with us. She asked he to draw our front door and the wreath. The people (she and I) , grass, sun and sky was all her! Hate to brag, but my kids got talent!

Happy Thanksgiving!

2008-11-27T08:18:00.004-05:00

I was reminded by my friend Mike at last nights Hockey game that I haven't blogged for a while. I actually have a few drafts started, but I supposed that doesn't really matter if they're not published! I'm glad that he said something, because today of all days I really want to blog for a few moments. Not only is Thanksgiving my favorite day of the whole year, but it gives me the opportunity to to acknowledge the amazing people in my life. I have a lot to be grateful for this year!

Ms. Bean - a peppy and bright voice woke me this morning telling me "Its Thanksgiving!". Ms. Bean is the kindest, most generous, and sensitive person that I have EVER met. Her love of music, art, and beauty influences every word she says or look that she gives. I am grateful for every single moment that I get to spend with her.

Little Bee - Little Bee is an absolute delight, and has transformed into a social butterfly this year. While her sister is shying away from adults, Little-Bee marches right up to them and introduces herself and her sister using all three given names. Of course the people that he is speaking with must be over age 9 (with the exception of her sister) or she wont speak to them at all. While she still loves to dig for bugs and worms, she now does it while wearing princess pink! No pants for Le-Le. She is a "Tinker" and I suspect that Tom might have found his engineer. Little bee makes me laugh every day, and warms my heart always!

Tom - Tom quietly moves around the house taking care of things and managing the chaos. He absolutely adores the three of us, and we adore him. 14 years ago today (well, on Thanksgiving) I started to date him and began this adventure. Together we have built a home that consists of many drawings, several pairs of sparkle shoes, music boxes, laughter, and a goldfish named Petals. I am not sure this is what either of us envisioned when we met for that first cup of coffee, but I am certain that neither of us would change a thing.

Susie and Jeff - there is no way to express how thankful I am for Susie and Jeff. Their assistance with the kids and willingness to be "part time care givers" has given me the piece of mind I need to go to work every day. without their love and support, my life simply wouldn't be as rewarding. Mostly, I am grateful that my girls know and love their grandparents and will treasure the memories they are making forever.

The Caps - A year ago yesterday (well, on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving) I sat in the stands of the Verizon Center, pissed, and calling for the firing of Hanlon with 15,000 of my closest friends.! Christmas came early, in the form of an odd looking man from Hershey. In 1 year, the caps have gone from last place in the NHL to a team that should at least clinch the SE Division if not the Conference. I am grateful for Bruce Bourdeaux.

There are many other people that I have to be grateful for this year, and while they didn't get top billing they are still very significant. Just to name a few, I grateful for Good Friends that I have known most of my life; neighbors that can be counted on always for everything; the voters in this country who decided to step up and demand change; and the guy at Market-Market off 3rd street that makes a PERFECT egg white and provolone on whole wheat!

Happy Thanksgiving to you all! XOXO

The Circle of Teeth

2008-11-17T17:37:00.004-05:00

On December 19, 2003, Ms. Bean got her first tooth. It was white and beautiful, and was on the bottom, in the middle and on the right. Ms. Bean was 6-months old.

Today, November 17, 2008 at the age of 5 1/2 ......... Ms. Bean lost her first baby-tooth. It was on the bottom, in the middle, and on the right.

This is the last known photo of the "complete-baby-tooth-smile":

And here is the same smile taken the evening of November 17, 2008:

It gets more beautiful with every milestone.

Homework

2008-11-16T09:13:00.002-05:00

Ms. Bean had 2 small homework assignments this week.

"Write down three things that you are Thankful for"

1) I am thankful for my Sister Leah
2) I am thankful for Susie
3) Cats

"Write down 5 things that you would take with you if you were going on a trip"
1) A Doll
2) My stuffed cat, Skippy
3) A Purse
4) A Hat
5) A peanut butter and Jelly Sandwich

Happy Birthday Daddy

2008-11-11T14:20:00.002-05:00

Tom's Birthday was November 8 - and between the election, a hockey game, and a cold, it was "overtaken by events". However, 2 little girls were not going to let it sneak by without baking a chocolate cake and breaking out the crayons. He is certainly adored by us all.

An Apple for the Principle

2008-11-11T14:07:00.000-05:00

Last week, one of Ms. Beans homework assignments was to make a birthday card for her principle, Dr. Zissios. I gave her a blank piece of paper and walked away for a few minutes. when I returned, she had completed her picture. Isn't it interesting that apples seem to be the standard grade school theme, despite the generation or position?

Fish Shopping

2008-11-09T17:26:00.003-05:00

Today we went fish shopping. We needed to replace our much loved, yet departed "violet". So, off we went to PetSmart looking for "Petals" new partner. The girls had mutually decided to name their new pet "Obama", and we were looking for one of those "black" goldfish like Arnold had on "One Day at a time". Finally, we spotted the perfect Fish! It was a brownish-black fish with personality and a fresh outlook! We were sold!

That is until the lady at PetSmart told us that we shouldn't buy a second fish for our 10-gallon tank, because the water would turn toxic too quickly and kill them both (which might explain the sudden tragic death of "Violet"). So we left PetSmart empty handed with only the memory of Obama-the=fish in our hearts.

The Petsmart woman was either the worlds WORST fish salesperson OR a very disgruntled McCain Supporter.

The Pot of Gold

2008-11-05T08:52:00.005-05:00

This morning I can say for the first time in a long time, that I am proud to be an American. History will tell us if electing Barack Obama to be the next President of the United States was the right move for our country, but I honestly believe in my heart, that it was necessary for the people of America.

We have been under a dark cloud for 8 LONG years, and yesterday we saw hope in the eyes of people across the world. More importantly, I saw hope in two bright blue eyes that I adore. I know better then to believe my 5-year-old understands the true significance of yesterdays outcome, but she recognized the world she knows got better in a single day. When you still believe in Fairy tales, the euphoria of a single day lasts a lifetime.

Sarah is ................................

2008-10-26T12:16:00.002-05:00

I love the way she writes! This delightful book came home in a purple backpack this week. I can only hope that in 20 years, she still fills in the blank the exact same way.

From fun

Happy Girl!

2008-10-26T12:10:00.003-05:00

This came home the first week of Kindergarten, but I just got around to scanning it! It is really nice to "see" a happy child.

Ms. Bean in her Halloween Costume - 2008

2008-10-26T09:56:00.003-05:00

Always a Silver Lining

2008-10-22T08:16:00.002-05:00

Well, its official, I needed to drop my DOD class due to a severe respiratory infection which I allowed to get out of hand. So, I have been put to bed for a week, with nothing but the TV and Internet to keep me company. I wasted 3 weeks of my life (and missed little Bee's first day of pre-school) for what amounts to being ............... nothing.

But, with the bad, comes the good. This delightful picture was delivered to my inbox from my dad yesterday. Ms. Bean drew it of herself, her sister, and her Mommy. The girls also spent the afternoon making "snow flake" get well presents out of paper. Knowing that you have a well adjusted family makes everything better!

XO D

Little Bee Starts Pre-School

2008-10-14T18:02:00.002-05:00

Today was Little Bee's first day at her new Pre-School. She got up early, and was very excited to start her "new life" all the while complaining that her "tummy hurt". I remember my first day at pre-school like it was yesterday. I was excited and had butterflies all at the same time. Little Bee must have gotten her Mommys stomach.

The good news is, that 2 very special people got to take her to school with me. The same two people who dropped me off at the Michigan State Daycare Co-op 36-years ago. I wonder if the scene looked anything like this?

From fun

Answering the mail

2008-10-08T17:49:00.007-05:00

Hey! Sorry, I have heard from a few people who have missed my blogging, so I will try and catch you up on my life. If you are one of those people, it is probably because you aren't one of my 53 Facebook Friends. Come on over but I worn you, it is a slippery slope!

DAU

Part of the reason that I have not been blogging is that I am 10-days into a 5 week "resident" course at Defense Acquisition University. My first set of exams is this Friday, and I have averaged about 20/100 pages of nightly technical reading due to a HORRIBLE case of bronchitis and the fact that the girls are just a lot more fun then trying to fully understand all of the intricacies of this.

The awful truth is that of all the people I love, this class is effecting me the least. Tom is doing double time with the girls in the evenings. The girls are having to put up with a very nervous and short tempered mommy (which is REALLY unfair), and Jeff/Susie have been having to do more then any grandparent should have to. In addition to continuing to pick Ms. Bean up at the bus everyday and spend the afternoon doing homework/driving to swim lessons/NOT RELAXING, my Dad now takes Leah downtown and picks her up 5 days a week. The worst part is that in the evening when I get back from class, I am often too cranky/tired to even say "thanks". So, if you see them, can you please tell them that their daughter/son-in-law love them very much, and could NEVER do this parenting thing without them? It really does take a village.

THE DIET

About 2 1/2 weeks ago, I got on the scale and got confirmed for myself what I already know, I had become FAT again. In fact, I gained back all of the weight that I lost with Leah, plus 1. So, I made an immediate visit to http://www.weightwatchers.com/ and registered for 3-months. To date, I am down 9 pounds. I was feeling pretty good about it until this mornings visit to the Doctor:

Nurse: I see that you have gained a few pounds
Me: Actually, I have lost weight, are you sure that your chart is right?
Nurse: Yes, you were here in May, and you've gained 5 pounds
Me: Hmmmm, maybe I lost weight before my visit in May because I was sick
Nurse: No, you were here in January (2008) and you have gained 12 pounds since then. I hear weight watchers is a good program, you should ask Dr. Mitchell for some information.

Ugh.

THE GIRLS

The girls are wonderful.

Ms. Bean LOVES Kindergarten and has become a little adult. Every morning she gets up without an argument and puts on her uniform. Every afternoon she has a huge smile.

"My teachers name is Ms. Dwyer and I like to play with my friends, make block towers, P.E., and I just LOVE art class. Today I made a pumpkin and tomorrow we are going to put the Jack-o-lanterns face on. I love to learn science with Ms. Ritchauskis and I love to learn respect with Ms. Price. I love to draw pictures for my mom and dad. My friends are nice to me and we are so helpful to each other like Ms. Price taught us. Everybody can be respectful. Ms. Jackson is very proud of us. We had a tornado drill today and we ducked our heads and stood on our knees for a minute, and then we went into the classroom to learn some more."

Little Bee starts a new pre-school next week and is really looking forward to the change. She will be very close to home and gets to wear a uniform like her sister! We are desperately attacking potty training to get her into an age appropriate classroom, and I suspect that it will all come together once she is there a few days. I am feeling pretty sad about pulling her out of the CDC, as it has been such a huge part of our family base. But, if there is one thing that this year has taught me, its that all change is good. Little Bee will be fine!

VOTING

We went to market Square last weekend and voted absentee. The girls came with us, and we each took one into the booth with us and we let them push the button to cast our votes. Ms. Bean proudly cheered and announced that she "just voted for Barak Obama". Then we were "shushed" by the surly man who was enforcing the "don't talk about candidates is the polling place rule. Please, I am a middle class 40 year old woman in Old Town with 2 kids and I was wearing an Obama Button. Was there any doubt?

THE MARKET

Don't want to address. I hate working and now have to forever. Tom and Jeff are sad.

WALK NOW FOR AUTISM

I registered for Walk Now for Autism again this year. As most of my readers know, I do a lot of walks/runs (of greater distances) annually, and this is the only one that I even suggest sponsorship for. It is my way of acknowledging how lucky Tom and I are. I have four close friends whose children are on the autism spectrum, and it is both heartbreaking and physically/emotionally/financially exhausting for their entire family unit. below is my pledge page if you are interested in sponsoring me. After all, if each of my readers contributes $5, I will only be $490 away from my $500 goal!

http://www.walknowforautism.org/dc/personal/devendorf

Peace for now! off to bed! XOXO D

Les Misbarak

2008-10-02T05:43:00.000-05:00

Im Voting Republican

2008-09-25T17:16:00.001-05:00

WTF?

2008-09-24T14:16:00.003-05:00

The following CNN breaking news alert just came over my Blackberry:

"John McCain suspends campaigning to work on economy, requests postponing Friday debate; asks Obama do the same."

Well, well, well. Perhaps someone is throwing in the towel? One can only hope.

Transitions

2008-09-18T18:01:00.001-05:00

On Sunday September 14, Baby-bee turned 3 1/2. She also wrote her name for the very first time. She is growing up. From now on, we will refer to her as "Little Bee", and we couldnt be more proud of her.

Smells - By Ms. Bean

2008-09-17T11:27:00.005-05:00

Things that Smell Good - Pizza

Things that DO NOT Smell good - Smoking

We must be doing something right.